Fit Washin' Night
The next important day leading
up to the islanders' wedding went by the name of fit-washin' night,
or feet washing night.
On this evening, the bridegroom and
his friends would pay another visit to the minister and session-clerk, this time
to to arrange for the proclamation of wedding banns.
But the night
took its name from a frenzied ceremony that occurred while the young
men were away.
At the bride's house, a number of
the local girls would prepare a tub of water in which to wash the
bride's feet. In more affluent households, wine was used instead
of water.
Seated on a stool to the left of
the tub, the bride-to-be's shoes were carefully removed by her father.
Her mother would then remove the girl's
stockings before pulling her bare feet over the water in a sunwise
direction. She then patted each foot, while pronouncing a blessing
on her daughter, finally plunging the girl's feet into the water.
This was the sign for all the waiting
women to surround the tub and help to scrub the bride's feet. During
the feet washing, they would search frantically for a ring which had been dropped into the tub by the bride's mother. The finder
of the ring would be declared to be the first of the gathering who
would marry.
Although the fit-washin' ceremony
degenerated into a mere frolic over the years, with much hilarity during the attempt to locate the prized ring, certain
accounts of early wedding traditions have the fit-washin' ceremony
taking place the night before the wedding. These also show that
the bridegroom was also expected to take part in a similar feet
washing ritual.
From this, it seems likely that there
was a time when, in a more solemn ceremony, the bride and groom's
feet were washed at the same time. The origin of these foot washing
traditions is unclear but it has been suggested that they may incorporate
elements of pagan sun and water worship.
After the fit-washin' frolics, the
emptied tub had to stand in sunlight for 12 hours and an unusual
restriction placed upon it - no dog could be allowed to look into
it. Again, the reason for this has been lost but it was once important
enough to ensure that all the dogs in the vicinity of the bride's house were securely shut
away for the day.
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