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The "Kissin' Maet"

Another pre-marriage ritual involved the young couple eating the kisseen’ maet - a dialect term, simply meaning kissing food.

Traditionally, this meal consisted of limpets, boiled in milk and water. It had to be eaten before sunset - which, in the depths of an Orkney winter, is around about 3pm.

The betrothed couple had to make sure they kissed before, and after, eating this meal.

Biddin' da folk

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Customs and First Steps
Fit Washin' Night
Saltwater and freshwater
Kissing Meat
Biddin' da Folk
The Blackening
The Wedding Day Arrives...
The Wedding Feast
The Wedding Cogs
After the Wedding

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